Men are unpredictable, full of surprises in the bedroom. it’s impossible to explain their behaviours when it comes to sex or lovemaking. You don’t know what they really desire in bed. It’s a common myth that men are so confident in bed during sex but they also fear for the first time.
Women need to know about these secrets of men before having sex. These secrets will help you to understand them and will also help to get closer to them.
1. Men Have Fear Of Not Performing Well
It is often assumed that men are very confident of their role in the intimacy department. It is expected of them to take the lead and initiate the act of making love. However underneath all that bravado is actually a very strong urge to satisfy their partner. To give their partner the best experience they could and they will try very hard to achieve that objective. Some men suffer from too much anxiety and keep on looking for their partner’s approval.
It may be bothering them as they want you to get the best experience out of your intimate relationship. On the other hand women may not be that much concerned with their role and will be less strained about proving themselves.
If a man ever brings up this topic, it would be best to reassure them of their performance because it will make them be at ease with themselves. Once they are comfortable they will loosen up and actually enjoy the intimacy instead of being on a constant look out to dissatisfying you in any way. This will also make your intimate relations more natural and enjoyable.
2. Men Want Validation That They Make A Good Move
Since men think a lot about sexual execution, it is vital that you value your man each time he makes a decent move.
On the off chance that you are getting a charge out of the demonstration, ensure that you are vocal. A little groan and moans amid the demonstration will likewise offer assistance.
3. Men Want To Get Down To ‘Business’ Immediately
One other example that men are from Mars and women from Venus is the attitude towards intimate relationship. Women have this notion that first they might go to some romantic candle-lit dinner. Preferably go to some fancy restaurant. Then have a long conversation about random things which might come to their mind. Trying to establish that bond and special connection before they will be ready for some action.
On the other hand men simply cannot wait that long as they are not thinking along those lines. They want a little less conversation and want to experience the practical side of intimate relations. As a woman it is understandable that you will take your time before getting intimate with your man but it is a major turn-off for a man.
He might feel impatient and eventually start to lose interest. Men only need a slightest indication that things are getting heated up and they will be excited in no time. So it is better not to make them wait for too long and communicate readiness as early as possible.
4. Men Also Get Conscious About Their Body Image
It is often thought that men do not care much about their appearance and usually have no insecurity when it comes to their body image. What with acting all tough and hard it does not look they might be in any need of a compliment or that they even care about one. However reality can’t be far from the truth.
Men are very conscious of their image, ranging from the way their hair looks, to their body shape and their facial features. If complimented on their appearance, it will add to their self-esteem tremendously.
5. Do Not Expect Men To Take Hints
If you are expecting men to show empathy and completely understand your point of view with a mere hint is never going to work out. Men do not think in that manner as they might be afraid of misinterpreting what you actually meant. Hence it is always safe to talk as directly as possible and let them know exactly what you require. To them problem solving is the only way to show empathy and that will be best achieved with open and direct communication.
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Article By: Kasoro
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